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Issue 1: The Team Spirit

Namaste'
Dear Friends around the world,
Dear Team members and not to forget.. our team leaders Burt and Bob....
 
This here is Yubupa with some words for all of us.....
And why is this needed?
Because we all come from different parts of the world with different cultures and mentalities..
We all have one intention.. To make this world a better place.
We are already in A BETTER COMMUNITY FOR ALL  and trying to do our best..
We are now the mentors and leaders and we need to learn to communicate with each other as we are the examples for the rest.
 
This is the most challenging moments and we all face day after day, the positive and negative energies... How to deal with this?
We can Transform Fatigue, Stress, and Fear into Vibrance, Strength, and Love..
I know that it is not always easy to smile at someone who has just hurt you by act and by words...
But what if we smile at that situation.... "do we feel better or worse?"
I think we all want a pleasant moments and we can have them ... we just need to look inside of us... 
We do not need to look for anything out there in the world .. what we do not have already inside
Now you may ask how am I supposed to know these 2 energies?
Signs of Positive Energy in People are that They exude an inviting sense of heart, compassion, and support that you intuitively feel safe and  relaxed and they emanate a peaceful glow where you feel better around them because your energy and optimism increase.
But then you have also another type of energy around you. Signs of Negative Energy in People are that you experience a sense of being demeaned, constricted, or attacked and you intuitively feel unsafe, tense, or on guard and You sense prickly, off-putting vibes and your energy starts to fizzle.
And another important thing is about "The Power of a Positive No".
Every day we find ourselves in situations where we need to say No -  because No is the word we must use to protect ourselves and to stand up for everything and everyone that matters to us. But the secret to saying No without destroying relationships lies in the art of the Positive No, a proven technique that anyone can learn. ..
And I learned that from our Leader Burt...
I learned to say "NO' without hurting anyone..
My advice is that
When you want to say No, do not react out of anger-or indeed out of any negative emotion such as fear or guilt.
Take a deep breath and focus on what you really want and what is really important . In other words, shift from being reactive focused on No, to being proactive focused on Yes
Sometimes Life's Unexpected Setbacks Can Lead to Unexpected Joy ... We just need to be fair to each other, support and collaborate whereever and whenever we can ..
As sometimes to solve big problems you have to be willing to do unpopular things too and never forget
Teamwork is a make or break situation. Either you help make it or the lack of it will break you. Individual commitment to a group effort that is what makes a team work  a society work, a civilization work.

"No problem is insurmountable.
With a little courage, teamwork and determination we  can
overcome anything."

love,light, trust, hope and peace
pat
Founder
http://www.theonenesslovefoundation.org
http://creativesocialnetworkforthepoor.ning.com
http://abc4all.net/hor.htm
http://abc4all.net/mentoryubupa.htm
http://abc4all.net/yubupaindex.htm



Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend.

The Heart Creates Oneness
The mind creates division
The Spirit RETURNS us to Wholeness

"When you return to your Self, this is called awakening, liberation, freedom. Having known your Self you know everything"

 
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